an accident? i think not
God's in charge, and He knows who you are. His gift to us is life. We are God's love, for He IS love (1 John 4:8).
picked up a poem that's pretty good. so here's some food for thought...
You are who you are for a reason.
You're part of an intricate plan.
You're a precious and perfect unique design,
Called God's special woman or man.
You look like you look for a reason.
Our God made no mistake.
He knit you together within the womb,
You're just what he wanted to make.
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No, that trauma you faced was not easy.
And God wept that it hurt you so;
But it was allowed to shape your hearts
So that into his likeness you'd grow.
You are who you are for a reason,
You've been formed by the Master's rod.
You are who you are, beloved,
Because there is a God!
-- Russell Kelfer